sama-duḥkha-sukhaḥ sva-sthaḥ sama-loṣhṭāśhma-kāñchanaḥ
tulya-priyāpriyo dhīras tulya-nindātma-sanstutiḥ || 24||
mānāpamānayos tulyas tulyo mitrāri-pakṣhayoḥ
sarvārambha-parityāgī guṇātītaḥ sa uchyate || 25||
My Understanding : A person begins to realize that their preferences—likes and dislikes—are influenced by the nature of the gunas, not by their true self. When they understand that these preferences are not inherent to them but are a result of the gunas, they stop chasing after what they like and no longer get disturbed by what they dislike. When they encounter something they like, they experience it without becoming overly attached. Likewise, when they face something they dislike, they experience it but do not let it cause irritation. They no longer feel happiness simply because something they like has occurred, nor do they feel upset when encountering something they dislike. A person on this path should stop focusing on how others treat them. Whether praised or insulted, they should react with equal composure. They should treat both friends and enemies with the same level of respect and equanimity. Furthermore, they should inspire and motivate those around them to act in good manners and with integrity. Leading by example, they should be the first to take the initiative in encouraging positive behavior. In all circumstances, their response to happiness or sorrow should be the same—balanced and unaffected by external situations.